Mix up the type of rewards. Be unpredictable! {Show excitement!}

Catch your child behaving

Toolkit Reminder

Coming up next in episode 2 learn how to manage misbehavior at home. 

Deliver praise via a silent interpretive dance

It’s best to ignore them and wait for them to move out of home

You should lock yourself in your room and hide

It’s time to grab a drink and ride it out

If a child associates misbehavior with your attention they’re more likely to misbehave.

When kids are acting up, a high level of attention is best

It’s Sunday morning and all is quiet in the house. Help Raymond get to the bottom of what’s going on.

dad sips coffee and goes to ethan's room 

EP_1_HACK_OVERLAY - DO NOT REMOVE THIS - ask him to clean up/get back to my coffee/warm attention

dad asks ethan to clean up, he gets cranky (back to overlay)

dad gets back to coffee, ethan spills blocks followed by crashcourse

dad goes to sit on bed and give ethan attention, but hesitates

You're playing so nicely. How about cleaning up a bit?

You've been playing really nicely by yourself this morning, well done!

playing nicely, clean up? playing nicely, well done! you been good

When giving praise, it’s tempting to slip in other instructions.

The issue? This takes away from the positive reinforcement you’re trying to get across.

Always attempt to dish out praise and attention without conditions.

Try Again

dad says ethan has been good but isn't specific enough

Describe the behavior you want to encourage.

When offering praise it's important to be specific about what your child has done well. This helps them learn what they need to do to earn your attention in the future.

Describe the behavior you want to see more of.

try again for not being specific with praise

ethan comes and chooses cereal for breakfast

specific praise, breakfast, physical affection

And children quickly lose interest when they know exactly what to expect. Try mixing it up and keeping things exciting. By tapping into your creative side, you can have some fun coming up with rewards too.

If your child has just followed instructions, don’t miss the opportunity to give them a nice reward. Be excited and specific about that they’ve done well.

TIP: Always look for chances to give your child loving attention. Catch them being good and match it with an appropriate reward or mix of rewards.

Next to

You’ve got them all

{Rewards} to remember

Intro

Our top reward tips can take some practice, but they really up your parenting game.

Using rewards {like a pro}

Reward tips list

content

whole family is calm and collected (conclusion)

WORKING AS A {TEAM} IS KEY

Take it from us, a strategy works best when the whole team’s in on the plan.

Nice one!